Talaaq ki sharha mai izafa,Akhir Kyun?

Talaaq Allah ta'ala ki nazar mai sakht na pasandeeda kam hai jo wo apne bandon ko karne se sakhti se mana karta hai,aur kaha jata hai jab arz-e-zameen per talaaq ka nam liya jata hai to asman kanp uthta hai,Beshak Allah hi sab ki joriyan banata hai aur ro-e-zameen per utarta hai lekin insan is bat ko kyun nahi samajh pata k kaheen uska uthaya hua aik ghalat qadam uski hast basti asdawajee zindagi ko jala kar khak kar de ga.
Talaaq ki kuch khas wajoohat hain jin ki bin'a per ye kam sarzad hota hai,hamare muashirey mai kam umar mai larki ki shadi,joint family system,zabardasti karwai gai shadiyan,bharose ki kami,apne sathi se la-taluqi ka izhar is ki waja banti hain aur ab ik aur waja bhi bohot ziada samne aney lagi hai aur wo hai parhi likhi aurat jo khud kamati ho aur kisi per bojh na ho,aj kal k daur mai jahan larki ki parhai ko ziada tarjeeh di janey lagi hai waheen is k nuqsanaat bhi samne atey jarhe hain,jab aik larki acha parh kar kaheen naukri karne lagti hai to phir wo apne ap per kisi ki hukoomat bardasht nahi kar pati,aksar shadiyan tootne ki waja ab yehi hone lagi hai k jahan mard ne zara ghussa,larai jhagra ya hath utha liya waheen larki apne ghar per akar beth jati hai aur phir sunne ko milta hai k mai uski Ghulam nahi !! aakhir ye soch hamare muashirey mai kase aur kyun kar janam le rahi hai jab k ik islami muashirey ka hissa hotey hue bhi yahan shohar ki izzat nahi ya biwi k huqooq usko nahi miltey.
Bharosa har rishte ki bunyad hai aur is bunyad ko mazboot se mazboot tar banana shohar aur biwi dono ki zimmedari hai,agar larki nokri karna chahti hai to shohar usey khushdili se qubool kare aur isi tarha larki ka bhi yehi farz hai k nokri k sath sath wo apne shohar ki bhi har jaiz bat ko ser ankho per rakh kar pura kare,aesa nahi k agar shohar ne kuch keh diya to larki is waja se apne ghar akr beth jaye k mai uski nokar nahi ya mai parhi likhi aur nokri karne wali larki hun aur apni hi bewaqofiyon ki waja se wo talaaq lene ka faisla le kar apni zindagi barbad karde.
Is silsilay mai Maa ka kirdar bhi bohot bara hai k wo apni beti ko parhai ya naukri k sath sath behtreen asdawajee zindagi guzarne ki talqeen kare,na k ye ho k maa hi usey ghalat raste per gamzan karde.Inhi sab cheezon se bach kar is Talaaq jaise na pasandeeda kam se dur rahen.

We 3 !!!

Inter kay papers kay baad aik taweel arsa farigh guzarne kay baad jab university mai dakhla hua tau bilkul university jane ka dil ni chahta tha. Shuru shuru mai Jinnah University kay naam se chirr hoti thi. Jahan har tarha ki larkion se waasta parne wala tha. Lekin jab dakhla ho hi giya tha tau yahan chaar saal tau guzarne the.

Shuru kay din bohat mauj masti mai guzre. Nae log, naya mahul, nae dost. Sab bohat acha lagne laga tha. Doston kay sath bahar ki ser-o-tafri, salgira manana, doston kay ghar jana. Waqt kay sath sath log bhi badlay aur rawaiyon ne bhi asal roop dikhaya. University kay 1.5 saal hans ro kay guzar gae.

4th semester mai dosti ka nae siray se aaghaz kiya aur shayad Allah bhi meharbaan hogae the. Tabhi unhu ne naimat ki soorat mai do esi larkion se milwaya jo waqt kay sath sath jigri aur bohat khas hogain. hum teeno ne hi shuru kay 1.5 saal mai bohat kuch khoya, bohat kuch paaya, bohat kuch samjha aur bohat kuch seekha.
Baaqi kay 3 semesters aur 1.5 saal se hum sath hain. Hum teen ki koi bhi tafri kisi aik kay baghair bhi mukamal nahi. Buses mai sath safar kiya, un ginat baar bahar ghoome, aik dosre ki maao kay hath kay khano se lutf andooz hue, aur in sab tafrihon mai se hum sea view ki tafri ko kabhi farmoosh nahi kar sakenge. Gharaz hum teen ne mil kar haseen rangon bhare pal bitaae, jo aaj bhi hamari yaadon kay canvas par poori aab-o-taab se jagmaga rahe hain.

Allah se dua hai kay hum teen ka sath yunhi saada rahe. Abhi bohat kuch aur dekhna baaqi hai. Abhi zindagi ki be shumaar manzilen hain jahan hame aik dosre ka sath nibhana hai. Agar zindagi kay kisi more par hum teen sath na bhi rahe tau hum teen ki yaadain aur duaen kbhi hamara sath nahi chorengi....

INDIVIDUAL CHARACTER

Man has harnessed the potentials of easy life and simultaneously does the same with his environment dissertation fixed the way to immense growth of civilization.From his primitive past,man became a cosmopolitan citizen of the world the task of this article is not to give you a treatment for the problem of humanity but to share with you the wisdom of thoughts.One should not lose his character .to relate this to current situation ,we can include our own country which had been suffering from economic set back for years,why there is a handful of success? this is because of our character.individual character is based upon the morals and hopes of society and is aimed at improvement of ourselves as a people  and as a country character represent us as a nation and we must achieve and surpass the expectation for our society.
Respect,trust,worthiness,citizenship,caring,fairness and responsibility are seven morals to go far in life  and do well in life individual character guide us with these morals,aiming for better future.
As a great sage WILLIAM ELLERY CHANNING said:-
                               " THE GREAT HOPE OF SOCIETY IS INDIVIDUAL CHARACTER"

Mobile Technology

Moujoda dour me dunya tezi se jadeed technology ko apna rahi hai.jis me se sbse ziada istemal kari janay waly technology mobile phone hai jesay waqt guzarta jarha hai yeh waqt ki aham zarorat bnta jarha hai aur fashion bhi aj kal log ak dosre ko mobile phone k model no se ya brands se phechanty hain aur ishi chez ki bunyad me aj kal logo yeh samjhty hain k agr unk pass smart phone nhi hoa to woh bht nechlay tapkay se hojyngy aur in sb bato ka faida mobile bnany walay  idaro ko horha hai is se unky idaro ko bhi bht faida phonchrha hai jis ki bunyad pe woh taraki technology ka  bharporr istemal karty hoye aise mukhtalif nukoosh walay mobile market me larahy hain jis se awam un mobiles ki taraf motwaja horhi hai.aur log apny apko update dikhany k lye yeh mehngy mobile letay bhi hain jin me se adhay se ziada logo ko usko istemal karna sahi se nhi ata to kch log is ka istemal sahi nhi karty

Aj se dus sal phelay humary mobile me camera nhi tha mobile bs  do kamo k lye hota tha ksi ko call ya apna paigam denay k lye (message) yeh bs ak dosre se rabty me rehnay k lye hota tha jis ki screen k ligh black and whaite hoa karti thi..aur sbse ziada istemal akrny wala mobile NOKIA,MOTOROLA hoa karty thy jo us waqt k mehngy tareen mobile hoa karty thy aur bht kam logo ko isk baray me sahi se maloomat hoa karti thi.

Aj kal (dour -e-jadeed) me ak am mobile me itny features hoty hain jesay ahista ahista tablets bht am hoty jarhy hain... smart phone me  android,jelly bean,kitkat versions to mega pikel of camera,memory status wagera.yani meary khaeny ka mtlb hai k mobile ak choti c dunya hai huamary hatho me jis me hume calculator ,clander,time,fm,music,social sites,WIFI wagera jis se hum apny parso mumalik me rehany waly rishtedaro se bhi asani se rabty me rehty hain.aj kal k dour me bht ziada maqboliat hasil karne wala smart phones google android and apple IOS mobile operating systems hain yeh smart phone aj kal dunya me bht am hain 2013 k bech me one billion smart phones dunya bahr me istemal kare jarhy thy .to is se yehi sabit hota hai mobile ki technology ne huamari zindagi asan bandi hai. bs shart yeh ahi k hum is zarorat ko zarorat samjh k istemal karn...

Selfie Fever

  Aik waqt mai cameron se taseeweren banwana har kisi k bas ki bat nahi hoti thi,kisi bohot khas moqey per jaise Shadi biyah ki taqreebat mai log photographer ko bulwaya karte the aur tasweeren banwate the jab k kuch logon k pas apne  camrey agar maujood hote the to apne kuch khas mawaqon per tasweeren banate the liken Ehed-e-hazir mai smartphones dunya k taqreeban har fard k liye zaruri ban chuka hai aur in samrtphones mai back aur front camera logon k yadgar lamhon ko qaid karta hai,waqt k sath sath science ne itni tarraqi kar li k ab har fard k mobile mai camera maujood hai aur log us se apni tasweeren khenchte hue nazar atey hain.

Isi camera se log apni tasweer khud se bhi khench sakte hain jo k SELFIE khelati hai aur yeh tamam tasaweer kisi khas mawaqon pe nahi balkey din bhar mai jo bhi routine raha ho us mai apni tasweer bana kar social media(Facebook,Twitter,LinkedIn) wagera per apne family aur friends k sath share karte hue nazar atey hain aur ab Selfie ka bukhar Larkiyon mai ziada dekha jarha hai k har lamhe per koi na koi tasweer social media per share kar rahi hoti hain,yehi nahi ab to selfie friend group k sath bhi li jati hai aur ye aik naya tareeqa hai lamhon ko yadgar banane k liye aur ye bukhar larki ho ya larka sab ko hota jarha hai aur apni jarein mazboot ka raha hai.

Ye shoq aam insan k sath sath aj kal k Celebrities,Singers aur Politicians mai bhi barh raha hai,award function ho ya koi conference har jagah selfie ka rujhan barhta hua dekhai de raha hai.

Psychologically research k mutabiq apni tasweer banana ya sheeshe k agey khud ki tasweer khenchna insan k zehan pe manfi asar mur-atib karta hai aur is se insan mai khudpasandi ka ansar barhta chala jata hai aur wo zehe mai ye sochne lagta hai k mujhe ab tasweer share karni hai aur har wat isi fikr mai ghulta rehta hai jis k ba'is zehan kuch sochne k salahiyat ko kam kar deta hai.

Har cheez ik hadh mai achi lagti hai,uska ziada istemaal aksar ghalat asraat ko janam deta hai jis se kafi nuqsanaat uthane parte hain khas kar larkiyon ko,har waqt ki tasaweer social media per share karna larki k liye ghalat sabit hosakta hai kyun k unki ye tasaweer mehfooz nahi hoteen.behtar hai k is shoq ko adat na banaya jaen takey is k nuqsanaat se bacha jasake.

THARPARKAR...

 Pani ALLAH ki di hui naimton me se ak azeem aur qeemti naimat hai.jo k insano k sath sath janwaro ki bhi zarorat hai.pani zindagi hai jis k bina rehna bht mushqil hai.aj ka mera unwan pakistan k us region ka hai jahan k log kai saloown ,maheno se pani jesi azeem chez k sath sath phen nay k lye kapry rehnay k lye ghr and bjli jsi zarorat ki chezo se mehroom hain ...aur mazay ki bat yeh hai humari hukumat sb janti hain ankhon k samny se aye din logo bachon ki mout ki khabar sunti hai phir bhi koi action nhi leti.. 

Thar jo sindh me waqae hai yahan k halat itny buray hogae hain k janwar insan ak hi jaga se pani p rhy hain. gandagi and qehad sali se logo apni janyn kho beathrhy hain aur inksa koii pursane hal nhi hai... bebsi se maain apny bemar bacho ko lekr beathi hoti hai.aur hukumat k ankho pe pati bndhi v hai..aye din sarkari ghaflat k bais mout hoti hai hukumat ki nazar me amwat ak am c bt hoogai hai jahan k hospitals me alat kharab paray hain.. aur  agr kbhi ehsasa ho bhi jae to k log madad karny jaty to hain mgr  jakr sojaty hain ya kbhii madad k lye pure thar k logo ko 1000 rupee dekar ajaty hain yeh koi nhi balkay yeh kam sindh hukumat k baray baray seniour rehnoma kar k atay hain.

Meri nazar me thar me khushk sali ki waja se qehad sali hai agr yahan barish hoo faslyn ugyn to shyd yahan k halat behtar hoon usk ilwa hukumat sanjeedgi se action apni zemdari puri kare..sindh festival jesay fozol tehwaro aur tareekhi jalso me paise kharch  karny k  bajae  unhi paiso se thar k hospital k alaat thek karyn aur thar ki qehad sali khatm karny k akhtedamat krn aur wahan k logo ki zaroriat puri krn

Qingqistan ya Karachi ??

Karachi ki sarkon per dandanate hue Qingqi  Sheher-e-qaid k liye aik mushkil bante jarahe hain,waise to ye sarwari kam paison mai logon ko apni taraf muta'wajjah kar rahi hai aur un k aram k liye banai gai thi liken waqt k sath sath ye awaam k liye wabaal-e-jaan ban chuki hai ,har cheez ki ziad'ti bhi bohot nuqsan-dey sabit hosakti hai aur yehi kuch karachi ki sarkon per hota hua dikhai deta hai.

Nazimabad ho ya Karimabad , Guru mandar ho ya lalu khait , Teen hatti ho ya Sadar gharz ye k karachi k har chotey barey road per Qingqi chalti hui dikhai deti hai,aur baat yaheen akar khatam nahi hoti hadh to yeh hai k ab ik hi route k 4 se 5 Qingqi aik sath line mai khare hue hote hain jin k jagah jagah apni marzi k stop per sawari bithane aur utarne k baa'is traffic jam aur accidents k waqaiyat rounuma horahe hain aur is sab ko traffic police aur mukhtalif elaqon ki union tamashaiyon ki tarha dekhti hui nazar ati hai.

Police aur mafia ki madad se Qinngi sheher ki har gali aur sarak per maujood hai ab hamein ye tak nahi maloom k kya un k pas fitness certificate  ya license aur legal ijazat nama hai b ya nahi,bas ye sarwari chale jarahi hai chahe kitni hi maholyati aaludgi sheher ko ganda kare,in k driveron ko is bat se koi gharz nahi hai k is ki chaath per bithane se logon ki jan ko khatra lahaq hosakta hai aur hum akhir driveron ko hi kyun bura kahen,hamare yahan ki awaam bhi be lagaam hi hai,ye jante hue bhi k is tarah bethna khatarnak hai lekin chand paison k chakkar mai apni jaan ki parwah hi nahi karte.

Ye sheher ab Karachi nahi balkey QINGQISTAN ban chuka hai aur pata nahi kab tak bana rahe ga,aakhir kab government is per koi action le gi aur is sawari per pabandi to nahi magar ziad'ti ko kam karwaegi aur dobara karachi ki sarkon per qingqi ka zor kam hoga,ye sab sirf us waqt hosakta hai jab is sawari ko legal tor per stop diye jayen jis se sheher ka traffic maflooj na ho.