

Bachay khuda ki tarf se ak anmol tohfa hoty hain bacahy man k sachay hotay hain kch bachay apnii masomiat bholpan se sb ka dil jeet letay hain to kch apni zid sharart ki waja se logo ki trf tawajah ka bais bnjaty hain aur kch bachy aise hotay hain jo apni sharamilay pan ki waja se dunya me bht nazar andaz hotay hain .Bacho ko sharmila banany me asal hath un k waildan ka hota hai usk ilwa unlogo ka bhi hota hai jo unk sath aksar.o.beshitar un k sath hotay hain ..Bacho ko sharmila bnany ki khani asal jb shuru hoti hai jb woh chota hota hai bolna sikhta hai samjhna sikhta hai is doran walidan bacho per tawaja na dain ya inki kahi hui galt bt na samjhi se kari hui bato/harkato ka mazak urty hain isk lye maa bap ko chahye k bacho ko samjhyn and sahi galt ki samjh sikhyn bajae isk k usko nazarandaz kar k usko shrmidgi aur ehsas.e.kamtari ka shikr na karn..Sharmilay log aj kal mashre me bht nuksan utharhy hain. aj kal zamana agy barh rha hai chal rha hai aur is mukam per hai jahan agr koi bacha sharmila hai ya usk anadar koi kamzori hai to usko bht mushkilat ka samna karna parta hai .woh bacha dunya me sbse phechay khelata hai q k aj kal k dor me log bacho ki andar ki sharm dur karne k bajae uska mazak bnaty hain aur aise bachy aksar masail ka shikar hojaty hain aur khud ko tanha samjhny lgty hain bht se bachy sapni zat k andar kabo palaitey hain lekin kch bachay apny anadar sharmilay pan ko chubany ka hunar jan letay hain mgr andar se woh is bt ko apni zat per mehsos kar rhy hoty hain .Is hal me in k walidan ko chahye bacho ko milansar banye unk dost bnayn bchy k anadar se sharmilapan nikalny k lye unko mukhtalif jagain lekar jyn unky dosto ko bola kar mukhtailf muzown per bt chet karyn bachy ki nashunma k lye usk anadar k hunar ko nikaln apny sath bacho ko rakhn un per dehan dn aur apny bacho ko dosro k agay nhii dantn agr koi glti karn bachy to usko alag se samjhyn.Agr walidan apny bacho k sath dostana rawaiya rakhngy to agy bachy khud apni nai rahain talash karny me kamiab hongy.
bilkul sahi..
ReplyDeletegood post :) n informative article for parents
ReplyDeletexctly yhi bat to kch parents ko smjh nhi ati :/
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